It is a matter of will. A matter of awakening. A perception one holds is one’s existence. Carrying perception around with you in everything you do. If you live at peace within yourself, peace will surround
everything you do. If you exist in anger and fear, then that is how you will perceive the world around you. Once you see past the foggy illusion of perception, truth is, everything is divine.
In order for great learning to occur, dark needs to show itself and be seen in the light, be seen in the bright light. Often there is nothing to do but be present and open hearted to whatever crosses your path, and just allow the universe to gift you your experiences.
There is no need to control with a tight grip, as this grip will be met with a magnetic polar force. Ease and grace, patience, courage, and love.
You are a powerful being enjoying a human experience. Let it be so and so it is!